Yes, there is a silver lining.
So your company closed. When this happened to me, I felt despondent, betrayed, victimized and generally worthless, angry and shattered.
Yet, I had to admit there was a silver lining. I didn’t want to acknowledge it because I wanted to be mad, but it was there. Maybe not one that gave me my economic stability and self-confidence back, but still…
Let’s face it. Have you ever been at work and:
- Wore out your watch by staring at it?
- Spiked your anxiety-ridden manager’s coffee with Valium?
- Kept your fingers crossed that the moron wouldn’t speak up and drag the meeting out purposelessly for another hour?
- Worried that the job would outlive you?
It’s a bummer to lose your job and your company with no chance of being hired back. But it gives you the opportunity that lets you get a new start, find new opportunities, even explore new careers. Admit it. There’s a silver lining there.
Have you found your silver lining yet?
Laurie Phillips is an expert at working for companies that vanish. She is the President of Sundance Research and no longer worries about the job outliving her.
Muchas gracias to flikr.com/tanakawho for the photo.
Terry Barker // Feb 6, 2010 at 2:58 pm
Yes, I have to admit, it’s led to new adventures. Since then I’ve worked in DC, Jacksonville, FL, and Columbus, GA. I’ve met new friends, and found out I’m pretty resourceful. Actually, I was looking for another job when I got laid off anyway, so in a way, they did me a favor.
Laurie Phillips // Mar 2, 2010 at 2:26 pm
Terry, you ARE resourceful. You’re also open-minded and willing to try new things. Some people freeze in the headlights when they get laid off. Others get into the car and get going. Glad you’re doing well.